This, then, is al-Sakhāwī’s remark concerning this authentic report—namely, that “it is sounder than the ḥadīth that forbids teaching women to write.” Such phrasing gives the impression that the ḥadīth of prohibition itself is also authentic.
Second: If the prohibition were intended only for a woman from whom moral corruption is feared because of learning, there would have been no point in restricting the ban to women, for that fear is not theirs alone. How many men has writing harmed in their religion and in their character! Should men, then, also be forbidden to learn writing? Indeed, should they be barred even from learning to read, since the same fear applies to reading as to writing?
The truth is that writing and reading are blessings from Allah bestowed upon humankind, as indicated by His words: “Recite in the name of your Lord who created—created man from a clinging clot. Recite, and your Lord is Most Generous, the One who taught by the pen” (Q 96:1-4). Like all of Allah’s favors, He wants people to employ them in obedience to Him. If some use them in ways that displease Him, that misuse does not strip them of their status as divine blessings—no more than sight, hearing, and speech cease to be blessings when misused. The same is true of writing and reading.
Consequently, fathers should not deprive their daughters of learning these skills, provided they take care to raise them upon Islamic morals—just as they are obliged to do with their sons. In this respect there is no difference between males and females.
The underlying principle is that whatever is obligatory for men is likewise obligatory for women, and whatever is permissible for men is permissible for women. There is no distinction, as the Prophet ﷺ said: “Women are but the counterparts of men,” narrated by al-Dārimī and others. No differentiation is allowed except on the basis of a text that explicitly proves it, and such a text is missing in the present issue. On the contrary, the evidence here aligns with the principle—namely, this authentic ḥadīth. So hold fast to it, accept no substitute for it, and lend no ear to anyone who chants:
“What have women to do with wri—
ting, employment, or oratory?
Ours it is; for them we decree
to retire unpurified from major impurity!”