It is well known that the polytheists love their deities intensely, as Allah Most High says:
“Their hearts were imbued with love for the calf because of their disbelief.”
[Surah al-Baqara: 93]
Although it may be said [that this is] (1) due to their belief that these deities benefit them, there is no doubt that a thing may be loved for both reasons. Yet when it is believed to possess attributes of perfection, love for it (2) is stronger, quite apart from any benefit it provides.
The hadith that is narrated states:
“Love Allah for the blessings with which He nourishes you; love me because of your love for Allah; and love my household because of your love for me.”
Its chain of transmission is weak (3), for Allah loves to be loved for His own sake, even though loving Him is also obligatory because of His beneficence.
The assertion, “Love on account of beneficence is the love of ordinary people, while that other love is the love of the elect,” is baseless. Rather, every believer loves Allah for His own sake, even if he verbally denies it. Whoever does not love Allah and His Messenger more than all else is not a believer.
If someone says, “I do not find (4) this love in my heart for Allah and His Messenger,” one of two things must be true: either he is truthful in this statement, in which case he is not a believer—for Abu Jahl and Abu Lahab