the man who had spoken against him a gift and told him, “You have presented me with good deeds that will benefit me on the Day of Resurrection, so I am presenting you with this gift that will benefit you in this world—though in the end it will become nothing more than dung or urine.”
The upshot, dear brothers, is that my advice to myself and to you is to avoid backbiting altogether and to stay away from delving into the faults of those in authority—scholars, governors, sultans, and others. If what you truly seek is goodness and reform, the door is open: approach them yourself or, if you cannot, go through other available channels. Once you have fulfilled the duty of sincere counsel, nothing further is required of you. And realize, my brother: does your backbiting of scholars or rulers set anything right? Never. It only spoils the current situation, increases doubt, lifts no grievance, and reforms nothing that is corrupt. Legitimate avenues already exist. A person must also speak with fairness, as I said earlier: if you feel compelled to publicize people’s faults, then publicize their merits as well so that the scales are balanced—or that one side clearly outweighs the other. But to be stricken with broadcasting vices while remaining mute about virtues is no justice at all.
May Allah guide us and you to all that is good and sound.
Allah the Exalted says: “And let not some of you backbite others. Would any of you like to eat the flesh of his dead brother? You would loathe it. So be mindful of Allah; truly Allah is Oft-Returning, Most Merciful” (Q 49:12). And He says: “Do not pursue that of which you have no knowledge; surely the hearing, the sight, and the heart—each of these will be called to account” (Q 17:36). And He says: “No word does he utter but there is by him a watcher ever-ready” (Q 50:18).
[Explanation]
The author—may Allah have mercy on him—says in his book Riyad al-Saliheen, in the chapter “The Prohibition of Backbiting and the Command to Guard the Tongue”: We have already stated that ghībah (backbiting) is to mention your brother with something he dislikes concerning his religion, his character, or his physical appearance