and rejoices at your remaining and lengthening the visit, then that is fine—indeed, it may even speed his recovery. One of the means to healing is to gladden the heart of the patient, just as one of the causes of a lingering or worsening illness is to fill him with gloom.

For instance, when you come to the sick person, say to him, “Today you are better than yesterday.” Even if, medically speaking, he is not better, still say it, adding, “Between yesterday and today you have increased in goodness: you prayed the five obligatory prayers, sought forgiveness, proclaimed the declaration of God’s oneness—your reward has only grown by means of this illness.” Speak so that happiness will enter his heart. Do not tell him, “Yesterday you were better than today.” That is a mistake, for even if it were true, such words can do no good and may well cause harm.

Likewise, if the patient enjoys listening to true stories—authentic accounts, not fabrications—and such stories cheer him up, then that too is commendable, for bringing joy to the sick is important.

When you wish to leave, ask his permission: “Would you allow me to go now?” This courtesy also pleases him, for he may prefer that you stay and, if so, he will not grant permission.