its qualitative worth; then Allah opens for a person gateways of provision that bring back to him whatever he has spent. As the Most High says, “Whatever you spend in His cause, He will replace it, for He is the best of providers” (Saba 34:39). In other words, He puts something better in its place. So do not imagine that if you give ten out of a hundred and are left with ninety your wealth has been reduced; rather, He increases it in blessing (barakah) and growth, and grants you sustenance from sources you could never expect.
“Allah adds nothing to a servant who pardons except honour.” When someone forgives the person who wronged him, his own soul may whisper, “This is humiliation, weakness, and defeat.” Yet the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) explained that Allah grants no one anything by forgiving except honour: He ennobles him and raises his rank. This is therefore an encouragement to forgive, but only when forgiveness leads to reform, for Allah the Exalted says, “Whoever pardons and reconciles, his reward lies with Allah” (al-Shura 42:40).
If, however, pardoning does not bring about reform but instead breeds further corruption, then it is not prescribed. Take the case of a wicked man, notorious for aggression, who attacks another person: should we tell the victim, “Forgive this evildoer”? We do not say that, for he is wicked; if you forgive him today, tomorrow he will assault someone else—or you again. In such circumstances firmness is required: the better course is to hold him accountable, to take your right from him, and not to forgive him, because pardoning people given to evil and corruption is no reform; it only increases them in depravity and wrongdoing.
When, on the other hand, forgiving brings about good and kindness—and perhaps the one forgiven is shamed by your generosity and refrains from harming you or anyone else—then forgiveness is the superior path.
“And no one humbles himself for Allah’s sake without Allah elevating him.” This is the very wording of the hadith: “Whoever humbles himself for Allah, Allah will raise him.”