so she told him what the Prophet ﷺ had urged. He asked her to give charity to him and to some orphans who were in her care, yet the matter remained unclear to her. She therefore went to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ to seek a legal verdict. When she reached his house she found another woman from the Anṣār there with exactly the same concern: she, too, wished to ask whether she could give charity to her husband and the members of her household.
Bilāl then came out. Allah had invested the Prophet ﷺ with immense awe—everyone who first set eyes on him was struck with reverence—yet whoever mixed with him and kept his company grew to love him and the sense of awe faded. Bilāl asked the two women what they needed. They told him that they wanted to know whether it was permissible to give charity to their husbands and those in their homes, but they also said to him, “Do not tell the Messenger ﷺ who we are,” preferring to remain anonymous.
Bilāl entered and informed the Prophet ﷺ: “At the door are two women whose question is such-and-such.” He asked, “Who are they?” Bilāl was now caught between two duties: the trust those women had placed in him when they said, “Do not tell him who we are,” and the Prophet’s direct question, “Who are they?” He replied, “One is a woman from the Anṣār and the other is Zaynab.”
The Prophet ﷺ asked, “Which Zaynab?”—for many women bore that name. Bilāl answered, “The wife of ʿAbd Allāh.” ʿAbd Allāh ibn Masʿūd was a close attendant of the Messenger ﷺ, entering his house even without formal permission, so the Prophet knew his family and their circumstances well.
Bilāl revealed their identity, despite their request, because obedience to the Prophet ﷺ is obligatory and overrides every other duty. The Prophet ﷺ then said, “Their charity in this case counts both as sadaqah and as the maintenance of kinship,” meaning it earns two distinct rewards: the reward