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- Spouses bathing together
It is permissible for husband and wife to perform ghusl together in the same place, even if each sees the other’s private parts. There are several hadiths on the matter.
The first: ʿĀʾishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said, “The Messenger of Allah ﷺ and I used to bathe from a single vessel set between us—our hands would overlap in it—and he would reach for the water before I did until I would say, ‘Leave some for me, leave some for me.’” She added, “Both of us were in a state of major ritual impurity.” 2.
(2) Reported by al-Bukhari, Muslim, and Abu Awana in their Sahih collections; the wording is that of Muslim, with an additional phrase preserved by him and by al-Bukhari in another chain. Al-Bukhari entitled the chapter “Bathing of a man together with his wife.” Ibn Hajar remarks in Fath al-Bari 1/290: “Al-Dawudi inferred from it the permissibility for a man to look at his wife’s awra (private parts).”
٩- اغتسال الزوجين معا:
ويجوز لهما أن يغتسلا معا في مكان واحد ولو رأى منه ورأت منه وفيه أحاديث:
الأول: عن عائشة ﵂ قالت:
"كنت اغتسل أنا ورسول الله ﷺ من إناء بيني وبينه واحد [تختلف أيدينا فيه] فيبادرني حتى أقول: دع لي دع لي قالت: وهما جنبان"٢.
٢ رواه البخاري ومسلم وأبو عوانة في "صحاحهم" والسياق لمسلم والزيادة له وللبخاي في رواية وترجم له ب "باب غسل الرجل مع امرأته "قال الحافظ في "الفتح" ١/٢٩٠:
"استدل به الداودي على جواز نظر الرجل إلى عورة امرأته=