The shaykh and imam, the scholar who practised what he knew, the consummate learned authority, Shaykh al-Islām and mufti to the people, Taqī al-Dīn Ibn Taymiyyah—may Allah strengthen him and increase him from His immense bounty—was asked about “beautiful patience,” “gracious forgiveness,” and “gracious withdrawal,” and about the various forms of piety and patience found among people.
He replied—may Allah have mercy on him:
All praise is due to Allah. To proceed:
Allah commanded His Prophet to observe gracious withdrawal, gracious forgiveness, and beautiful patience. (*) “Gracious withdrawal” is withdrawal without causing harm; “gracious forgiveness” is forgiveness without reproach; and “beautiful patience” is patience without complaint.
Jacob, peace and blessings be upon him, said:
“I complain of my anguish and sorrow only to Allah.”
Yet he also said:
“So I shall bear this with beautiful patience. And Allah is the One whose help is sought against what you describe.”
Thus, complaining to Allah does not contradict beautiful patience. It is reported that Moses, peace and blessings be upon him, used to say: “O Allah, to You belongs all praise, to You complaints are addressed, You are the One whose help is sought, and through You