“199” “Take what is readily offered, enjoin what is right, and turn away from the ignorant.”
This verse comprehensively sets forth good character in dealing with people and how one ought to treat them. One should accept what people readily offer—that is, whatever they willingly give and whatever conduct and character come easily to them. One should not expect of them what does not come naturally to them. Rather, one should appreciate whatever good words or deeds each person offers, or even anything less than that; overlook their shortcomings and turn a blind eye to their imperfections. One should not look down upon the young because of their youth, anyone of limited understanding because of that limitation, or the poor because of their poverty. Rather, everyone should be treated gently and in a manner suited to the circumstances and pleasing to their hearts.
“And enjoin what is right”—that is, every good word, noble deed, and excellent quality of character, toward those near and far alike. Let whatever comes from you to people consist of imparting knowledge or encouraging good, such as maintaining ties of kinship, honoring one’s parents, reconciling people, offering beneficial advice or sound counsel, assisting in righteousness and piety, deterring others from evil, or guiding them toward some religious or worldly benefit. Since harm from the ignorant is unavoidable, Allah Most High commands that they be met by turning away from them rather than responding to their ignorance in kind. If someone harms you by word or deed, do not harm him; if someone deprives you, do not deprive him; if someone severs ties with you, maintain ties with him; and if someone wrongs you, deal justly with him.
As for how the servant should deal with devils among humankind and jinn, Allah Most High says: