(12) โO Prophet, when believing women come to you to pledge that they will not associate anything with Allah, steal, commit adultery, kill their children, bring a slander they have fabricated between their hands and feet, or disobey you in anything right, then accept their pledge and ask Allah to forgive them. Surely Allah is All-Forgiving, Most Merciful.โ
The conditions mentioned in this verse are known as โthe womenโs pledge,โ under which women [would] pledge to uphold the duties shared by men and women at all times.
โฆ858โฆ As for men, what is required of them varies according to their circumstances, ranks, and individual obligations. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) would carry out Allahโs command: whenever women came to pledge to him and committed themselves to these conditions, he accepted their pledge, reassured their hearts, asked Allah to forgive whatever shortcomings they might display (1), and counted them among the believers on condition that they โassociate nothing with Allahโโthat is, by (2) singling out Allah [alone] in worship.
โAnd they will not commit adultery,โ as this was widespread among prostitutes and women who took secret lovers; โnor kill their children,โ as was practiced by the ignorant women of the Age of Ignorance.
โNor bring a slander they have fabricated between their hands and feet.โ Slander means fabricating lies against others. That is, they must not fabricate lies under any circumstances, whether concerning themselves and their husbands (3) or anyone else. โNor disobey you in anything rightโ: that is, they must not disobey you in anything you command them, for your commands can only be right. This includes obeying [you] when forbidden to wail over the dead, tear their garments, scratch their faces, or utter the cries (4) of the Age of Ignorance.
โThen accept their pledgeโ when they commit themselves to everything mentioned.
โAnd ask Allah to forgive themโ for their shortcomings and to console their hearts. โSurely Allah is All-Forgivingโโthat is, He abundantly forgives the disobedient and shows kindness to repentant sinnersโโMost Mercifulโ: His mercy encompasses all things, and His beneficence extends to all creatures.