“This man has no concern but women.” So Allah, Exalted is He, revealed: “Indeed, We sent messengers before you and gave them wives and offspring” (1). We did not make them angels who neither ate nor drank nor married.
“No messenger could bring a sign except by Allah’s permission.” This was the reply to Abdullah ibn Abi Umayyah. Then He said:
“For every appointed term there is a decree.” That is, for every matter Allah has decreed, there is a record in which He has written it and a time at which it will occur.
It was also said: for every matter whose occurrence Allah has deferred, there is a record in which it has been established. Another view is that the wording involves inversion; its meaning is: every Book has an appointed term and duration—that is, each of the revealed Books has a time at which it is sent down.
“Allah effaces what He wills and confirms what He wills, and with Him is the Mother of the Book. (39)”
“Allah effaces what He wills and confirms what He wills.” Ibn Kathir, Abu Amr, Asim, and Yaqub recited wa-yuthbitu without gemination, while the others recited it with gemination. They differed regarding the meaning of the verse.
Sa'id ibn Jubayr and Qatadah said: Allah effaces whichever laws and obligatory ordinances He wills, thus abrogating and replacing them, and He confirms whichever of them He wills, so that He does not abrogate them (2).
Ibn Abbas said: Allah effaces what He wills and confirms what He wills, except provision, one’s appointed term, felicity, and wretchedness (3).
We narrated from Hudhayfah ibn Usayd that the Prophet—may Allah bless him and grant him peace—said: “The angel comes to the drop of fluid after it has settled in the womb for forty or forty-five nights, and says: ‘My Lord, will he be wretched or blessed?’ Then it is recorded. He then says: ‘My Lord, male or female?’ Then it is recorded. His deeds, the effects he will leave behind, his appointed term, and his provision are recorded; then the pages are folded, and nothing is added to them or taken away from them” (4).
It is reported from Umar and Ibn Masud—may Allah be pleased with them both—that they said: He also effaces felicity and wretchedness, and He effaces provision and one’s appointed term, and confirms whatever He wills.
It is also reported from Umar—may Allah be pleased with him—that he would circumambulate the House while weeping and saying: “O Allah, if You have written me among those destined for felicity, then confirm me among them. But if You have written wretchedness for me, then erase it and confirm me among those destined for felicity and forgiveness. For You efface what You will and confirm what You will, and with You is the Mother of the Book.” A similar report is narrated from Ibn Masud.