from the Prophet ﷺ that he said:
“None of you will enter Paradise because of his deeds.”
They asked, “Not even you, O Messenger of Allah?”
He replied, “Not even I, unless Allah envelops me in mercy and bounty.” (1)
In numerous passages Allah recounts His favours, kindnesses, and blessings upon His servants, commanding them to remember them and to give thanks for them.
The servant, however, has been forbidden to remind others of his charity, for He, Exalted is He, says:
“Do not nullify your charities with reminders of favour and injury.” (2)
The reason is that, in truth, the giver of charity benefits only himself, not the recipient; were there no advantage, reward, or compensation in it for him, he would not give at all. He is like a hired man who serves the slaves for a wage he receives from their master; he has shown no real favour to the slaves themselves.
Moreover, it is Allah who has favoured the giver by making it easy for him to benefit himself, and so he must thank Allah and recognise that the real benefactor is Allah. If he looks at the act itself, Allah is its Creator; if he looks at its outcome, he is seeking its recompense from Allah; and if he looks at the supposed beneficiary, he sees that he has merely benefited himself. Allah has been kind to him by making him one who benefits himself rather than wrongs himself.
For this reason, reminding a creature of one’s charity is an act of injustice that nullifies the charity. Allah, on the other hand, is the One who truly bestows blessings upon His servants, and when He assists them to thank Him and makes them grateful—rewarding them for that gratitude ⦗11-A⦘—this too is pure grace from Him. All of it is generosity and beneficence for which He takes no recompense from anyone, neither from the one favoured nor from anyone else. He is therefore the true Bestower. And even though His bestowal embodies a wisdom He loves and approves, that wisdom itself comes from Him. Thus no one can claim a favour over Him; He is sheer Generosity, and there is nothing whatsoever like unto Him.
People have discussed generosity and beneficence, and whether one who acts for a particular wisdom and purpose can truly be called generous.