And the root of all sins is helplessness. A person fails to employ the means of obedience and the means that restrain him (1) from sins and stand between him and them, so he falls into sin. Thus this noble hadith, in which the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, seeks refuge, encompasses the roots and branches of evil, its beginnings and ends, and its inlets and outlets. It includes eight traits, grouped into four associated pairs (2). He said:
“I seek refuge in You from anxiety and sorrow.”
These two are a pair. The distress that enters the heart falls into two categories according to its cause: if its cause is something in the past, it produces sorrow; if it is the anticipation of something in the future, it produces anxiety. Both stem from helplessness. What has passed cannot be warded off by sorrow (3), but rather by contentment, praise, patience, faith in divine decree, and the servant’s saying: “Allah has decreed, and He does whatever He wills.”
Nor can what lies ahead be warded off by anxiety. If a person has a way to avert it, he must not fail to do so. If he has no way to avert it, he must not panic over it. Rather, he should dress for it, equip himself for it, and make the preparations appropriate to it. He should shelter behind the strong shield of affirming Allah’s oneness, relying on Him, casting himself before the Lord Most High, surrendering to Him, and being content with Him as Lord in everything. He should not be content with Him as Lord only in what he loves, but not in what he dislikes. If that is how he is, then he has not accepted Him as Lord (4) without reservation, and so the Lord does not accept him as His servant without reservation.