that decree, for one decree may be warded off by another, just as the decree of illness is warded off by medicine, that of sins by repentance, and that of an enemy by jihad. In each case, both are part of divine decree.”
The reply is: This is true, but it is beneficial before the unwelcome decree comes to pass. Once it has occurred, there is no way to prevent it. If, however, he has a way to ward it off or alleviate it through another decree, pursuing that is more fitting than saying, “If only I had acted.” Rather, his duty in this situation is to turn to the action by which he can ward it off or alleviate it, not wish (1) for something that has no prospect of happening. Such wishing is sheer helplessness. Allah censures helplessness, loves resourcefulness, and commands it. Resourcefulness means actively employing the means to which Allah has linked outcomes that benefit the servant in his worldly life and his life hereafter. These means open the way to good deeds and obedience to the divine command.
Helplessness, on the other hand, opens the door to Satan’s work. When a person fails to do what benefits him and resorts to vain wishes, saying, “If only such-and-such had happened,” or “If only I had done such-and-such,” the door to Satan’s work opens before him. Its gateway is helplessness and laziness. This is why the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, sought refuge from both (2). They are the key to every evil. From them arise anxiety and sorrow, cowardice and miserliness, the crushing burden of debt and being overpowered by others. All these spring from helplessness and laziness, and their hallmark is “if only.” Hence the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said:
“For ‘if only’ opens the door to Satan’s work.”
The person who indulges in wishful thinking (3) is among the most helpless and bankrupt of people. Wishes are the capital of the bankrupt, and helplessness is the key to every evil.