then gave you strength after weakness, then weakness and grey hair after strength.” [al-Rūm: 54]
‘Utbah derives from ‘atab (hardship) (1), so their names indicated hardship that would befall them and weakness that would overtake them. Their Muslim opponents were ‘Alī, ‘Ubaydah, and al-Hārith (2): three names corresponding to their qualities—loftiness, servitude, and striving, which is cultivation. Thus they rose above their opponents through their servitude to Allah and their striving to cultivate for the Hereafter.
Since a name implies what it signifies and influences its bearer, the names most beloved to Allah are those that imply the qualities most beloved to Him, such as ‘Abd Allāh (servant of Allah) and ‘Abd al-Rahmān (servant of the Most Merciful). Attributing servitude to the names Allah and the Most Merciful is dearer to Him than attributing it to other names, such as the Subduer and the All-Powerful. Thus ‘Abd al-Rahmān is dearer to Him than ‘Abd al-Qādir (servant of the All-Powerful), and ‘Abd Allāh is dearer to Him than ‘Abd Rabbih (servant of his Lord). This is because the bond between the servant and Allah consists solely in servitude, while the bond (3) between Allah and the servant consists solely in mercy. Through His mercy, the servant comes into existence and attains the perfection of his existence. The purpose for which He brought him into being is that he should worship Him alone with love, fear, hope, reverence, and veneration. He thus becomes a servant of Allah, worshipping Him in accordance with the meaning of divinity contained in the name Allah—a meaning that cannot belong to anyone else. Since His mercy prevails over His wrath, and mercy is dearer to Him than wrath, ‘Abd al-Rahmān is dearer to Him than ‘Abd al-Qāhir (servant of the Subduer).