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500 — Ahmad ibn Jamīl narrated to us: Abd Allah ibn al-Mubārak informed us: Yūnus informed us, from al-Zuhrī, who said: Humayd ibn Abd al-Rahmān ibn Awf informed us that his mother—Umm Kulthūm bint Uqba ibn Abī Muayt—had informed him that she heard the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, say, “The one who brings about reconciliation between people, saying good things and passing on good words, is not a liar.”
Ibn Shihāb said, “I have heard no concession granted for anything that people call a lie except in three situations: war; reconciliation between people; and what a man says to his wife and what a woman says to her husband.”
٥٠٠ - حَدَّثَنَا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ جَمِيلٍ، أَخْبَرَنَا عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ الْمُبَارَكِ، أَخْبَرَنَا يُونُسُ، عَنِ الزُّهْرِيِّ، أَخْبَرَنَا حُمَيْدُ بْنُ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ عَوْفٍ: أَنَّ أُمَّهُ وَهِيَ أُمُّ كُلْثُومِ بِنْتُ عُقْبَةَ بْنِ أَبِي مُعَيْطٍ، أَخْبَرَتْهُ، أَنَّهَا سَمِعَتْ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ﷺ يَقُولُ: «لَيْسَ الْكَذَّابُ الَّذِي يُصْلِحُ بَيْنَ النَّاسِ، فَيَقُولُ خَيْرًا وَيَنْمِي خَيْرًا» قَالَ ابْنُ شِهَابٍ: " فَلَمْ أَسْمَعْ يُرَخِّصُ فِيمَا يَقُولُ النَّاسُ كَذِبٌ إِلَّا فِي ثَلَاثٍ: الْحَرْبُ وَالْإِصْلَاحُ بَيْنَ النَّاسِ، وَحَدِيثُ الرَّجُلِ امْرَأَتَهُ، وَحَدِيثُ الْمَرْأَةِ زَوْجَهَا "