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47 — ‘Abd al-Rahmān ibn Sālih narrated to us: Ibrāhīm ibn Hirāsah narrated to me, from al-Muhallab ibn ‘Uthmān, from ‘Abd al-Rahmān ibn ‘Amr al-Awzā‘ī, who said: ‘Umar ibn al-Khattāb (may Allah be pleased with him) said:
“Choose your friends according to their piety. Offer your conversation freely only to one who desires it, and lay your need only before one who would gladly fulfil it. Consider the living fortunate only for what would cause you to consider the dead fortunate, and consult concerning your affairs those who fear Allah, Mighty and Majestic.”
٤٧ - حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنُ صَالِحٍ، حَدَّثَنِي إِبْرَاهِيمُ بْنُ هِرَاسَةَ، عَنِ الْمُهَلَّبِ بْنِ عُثْمَانَ، عَنْ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ عَمْرٍو الْأَوْزَاعِيِّ، قَالَ: قَالَ عُمَرُ بْنُ الْخَطَّابِ ﵁: «آخِ الْإِخْوَانَ عَلَى قَدْرِ التَّقْوَى وَلَا تَجْعَلْ حَدِيثَكَ بِذِلَّةٍ إِلَّا عِنْدَ مَنْ يَشْتَهِيهِ وَلَا تَضَعْ حَاجَتَكَ إِلَّا عِنْدَ مَنْ يُحِبُّ قَضَاءَهَا وَلَا تَغْبِطِ الْأَحْيَاءَ إِلَّا بِمَا تَغْبِطِ الْأَمْوَاتَ وَشَاوِرْ فِي أَمْرِكَ الَّذِينَ يَخْشَوْنَ اللَّهَ ﷿»