associating anything with You knowingly, and I seek Your forgiveness for what I do unknowingly.”1 What the servant needs to seek forgiveness for among the sins of which he is unaware is many times greater than what he knows. No one who harms him is given power over him except because of a sin. There is no evil in existence other than sins and their consequences; when he is delivered from sins, he is delivered from their consequences. Thus, when the servant is wronged, harmed, and overpowered by his adversaries, nothing is more beneficial to him than sincere repentance from the sins that caused his enemy to gain power over him.
The eighth means is to give charity and show kindness to the best of his ability. This has a remarkable effect in warding off affliction, the evil eye, and the evil of the envious. The evil eye, envy, and harm can scarcely gain power over a charitable benefactor. Even if something of that nature does befall him, he is treated with gentleness, assistance, and support, and ultimately enjoys a praiseworthy outcome. Charity and kindness are forms of gratitude for blessings, and gratitude safeguards blessings from everything that could cause them to cease.
The ninth means is to extinguish the fire of the envious, the aggressor, and the offender by treating him kindly. The more he increases in harm, evil, aggression, and envy, the more you should increase in kindness toward him, sincere counsel for him, and compassion for him. Allah Most High says: “Good and evil are not equal. Repel evil with what is best, and the one between whom and you there was enmity will become as though he were a devoted friend. Yet none is granted this except those who are patient, and none is granted it except one endowed with a great share of goodness.” 2 Consider in this regard the example of the prophet, peace be upon him, about whom our Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, related that his people beat him until they made him bleed. He began wiping the blood from himself and saying: “O Allah, forgive my people, for they do not know.”3