Among the proper manners of relieving oneself is that a Muslim should neither face the qiblah while defecating or urinating, out of respect for it, nor turn his back toward it. He should also not cleanse himself with his right hand. Abū Hurayrah—may Allah be pleased with him—reported that the Messenger of Allah—peace and blessings be upon him—said: “I am to you like a father, teaching you. When any one of you goes to relieve himself, he must neither face the qiblah nor turn his back toward it, and he must not cleanse himself with his right hand.” He would instruct them to use three stones and forbid the use of dung.1
Reflect on the thorough care, gracious concern, and perfect sincerity of counsel embodied in his words—peace and blessings be upon him: “I am to you like a father, teaching you.”
Another proper manner is that, when a Muslim cleans himself with stones after relieving himself, he should use no fewer than three, as this ensures thorough cleansing. There is no harm in using materials that serve the same purpose as stones, such as tissues and the like. He may also cleanse himself with water, which is preferable. It is reported in the two Sahih collections that Anas ibn Mālik—may Allah be pleased with him—said: “Whenever the Messenger of Allah—peace and blessings be upon him—went out to relieve himself, I and another boy would bring a small vessel of water with us—meaning that he would cleanse himself with it.”2
When relieving himself, a Muslim must also guard against splashes of urine striking his body or clothing. Ibn Abbās—may Allah be pleased with them both—reported that the Messenger of Allah—peace and blessings be upon him—passed by two graves and said: “Indeed, they are being punished, though they are not being punished for anything great. One of them used to go about spreading malicious gossip, while the other did not protect himself from his urine.” Another narration states: “He did not take care to keep himself away from urine—or free of urine.”3
A Muslim may not speak while relieving himself, nor occupy himself with any form of