Dalīl al-ṬālibMarʿi al-Karmi

Burying the deceased in the open desert is preferable.

If a pregnant woman dies, it is unlawful to cut open her abdomen. Instead, female attendants should try to remove the fetus if there is hope that it might live. If this proves impossible, she is not buried until the fetus has died. Should part of the child emerge alive, the remainder of the mother’s body may be incised to complete the delivery.

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It is recommended to offer condolences to a Muslim for up to three days. One says, “May Allah enlarge your reward, grant you excellent consolation, and forgive your deceased,” and he replies, “May Allah answer your supplication and show mercy to us and to you.”1

There is no objection to weeping over the dead.

It is forbidden to engage in lamentation (an-nadb), which is weeping while recounting the deceased’s virtues, and in wailing (an-niyāḥah), which is raising the voice in a drawn-out cry. It is likewise forbidden to tear clothing, slap the cheeks, scream, pluck out the hair, loose it, or shave it.

Visiting graves is recommended for men and disliked for women. However, if a woman passes a grave on her way, greets its occupant, and prays for him, that is commendable.

It is recommended that whoever visits or passes by a graveyard say:
“Peace be upon you, abode of believing people. Indeed, we, if Allah wills, shall soon join you. May Allah have mercy on those of you who departed earlier2 and those who come later. We ask Allah for well-being for us and for you. O Allah, do not deprive us of their reward, do not test us after them, and forgive us and them.”

(1) Imam Ahmad—may Allah have mercy on him—used this narration as a rebuttal; see Manar al-Sabil, 1:249. (2) In manuscript N the wording is minkum (“from you”).
والدفن بالصحراء أفضل. وإن ماتت الحامل حرم شق بطنها وأخرج من النساء من ترجى حياته فإن تعذر لم تدفن حتى يموت وإن خرج بعضه حيا شق الباقي. فصل تسن: تعزية المسلم إلى ثلاثة أيام فيقال له: "أعظم الله أجرك وأحسن عزاءك وغفر لميتك", ويقول هو: "استجاب الله دعاءك ورحمنا وإياك".١ ولا بأس: بالبكاء على الميت. ويحرم: الندب وهو: البكاء مع تعداد محاسن الميت والنياحة وهي: رفع الصوت بذلك برنة ويحرم شق الثوب ولطم الخد والصراخ ونتف الشعر ونشره وحلقه. وتسن: زيارة القبور للرجال وتكره للنساء وإن اجتازت المرأة بقبر في طريقها فسلمت عليه ودعت له فحسن. وسن: لمن زار القبور أو مر بها أن يقول: "السلام عليكم دار قوم مؤمنين وإنا إن شاء الله بكم للاحقون ويرحم الله المستقدمين منكم٢ والمستأخرين نسأل الله لنا ولكم العافية اللهم لا تحرمنا أجرهم ولا تفتنا بعدهم واغفر لنا ولهم".
١ رد به الإمام أحمد ﵀. منار السبيل "١/٢٤٩". ٢ في "ن" "منكم".

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