“That squint-eyed, tongue-tied man whose fortune is accursed—Abū Hudhayfah is the worst of people in religion!
Have you shown no gratitude to the father who reared you from childhood
until you reached the prime of unhindered youth?”⦗1⦘
He (the narrator) said: Abū Hudhayfah was tall, handsome-featured, with symmetrically set teeth; yet he had that slight lisp.
Abū Hudhayfah, may Allah be pleased with him, was martyred on the day of al-Yamāmah in the year 12 AH, together with his freedman Sālim.
His brother Abū Hāshim ibn ʿUtbah embraced Islam later; he accepted the faith on the day of the Conquest, his Islam proved sound, he strove in jihad, settled in Syria, and was a righteous, devout man.
He relates a report from the Prophet ﷺ found in al-Tirmidhī, al-Nasāʾī, and Ibn Mājah.
He died during the caliphate of ʿUthmān. He was the maternal brother of the martyr Muṣʿab ibn ʿUmayr and the maternal uncle of the caliph Muʿāwiyah.
Manṣūr ibn al-Muʿtamir narrated from Abū Wāʾil: Samurah ibn Sahm said:
“I visited Abū Hāshim ibn ʿUtbah when he was suffering from a stab wound, and Muʿāwiyah entered to visit him. Abū Hāshim wept.
Muʿāwiyah said, ‘What makes you weep, uncle? Is it pain, or longing for this world?’
He replied, ‘Neither. Rather, the Messenger of Allah ﷺ entrusted me with a charge which I have not fulfilled. He said to me, “O Abū Hāshim! You may live to see wealth distributed among people. What should suffice you of the world’s possessions is a single servant and a mount used in the cause of Allah.”
Now I have acquired—and I have amassed.’⦗2⦘