His statement, “unless he has intercourse with her, divorces her, or the marriage is annulled”: this refers back to his statement, “She has authority.” As for his statement, “This authority remains deferred,” we do not say, “unless he has intercourse with her.” Rather, we say: it remains deferred unless he stipulates a time limit. If he stipulates a limit, such as by saying, “Your matter is in your hand for this hour,” then she has no authority after that hour. And if he says, “Your matter is in your hand for this day,” she has no authority after that day, because he has set a limit for her. As for the basic ruling of the matter—that is, the phrase, “Your matter is in your hand”—this delegation is revoked by these three matters.
The first is that he has intercourse with her—that is, has marital relations with her—before she chooses anything. In that case, the agency is revoked, because intercourse is an action indicating that he has withdrawn from his previous statement. The reason it indicates this is that, when he said, “Your matter is in your hand,” it was possible for her at that point to divorce herself. If she were to divorce herself three times, would he then be entitled to have intercourse with her or not? He would not. Therefore, when he has intercourse with her without asking whether she has divorced herself or not, it is known that he has withdrawn the delegation. This is like saying to someone, “Take this commodity and sell it,” and then selling it oneself: this is considered a revocation of his agency. Or if I say, “I appoint you as my agent to sell my camel,” and the man leaves, then guests come to me and I slaughter the camel, the agency is revoked. Thus, if he has intercourse with the wife to whom he said, “Your matter is in your hand,” the agency is revoked.
The second is that he divorces her. If he says, “Your matter is in your hand,” but then says, “I fear that she may divorce herself three times,” and so says, “You are divorced once,” she is divorced once. Does she then have the authority to divorce herself? No; she has no authority to do so, whether once, twice, or more, because once he has divorced her, it is known that he has withdrawn his previous delegation. This is therefore a case of revoking agency through an action.