by any wording that indicates it. For if someone were to say, “I have married you to my daughter,” and the other replied, “I accept,” and he consummated the marriage with her, and she bore him children, or he died, or she died—then for us to say that the marriage was not concluded, despite knowing that both parties, the guardian and the husband, understand what is intended, is fraught with danger. The unquestionably correct view is that it is concluded by every expression that indicates it.
It is cited in the marginal notes that Shaykh al-Islam said (1): “No report has been transmitted from Ahmad that he restricted it to these two expressions. The first among Imam Ahmad’s followers to say this was Ibn Hamid; the Qadi and those who came after him followed him in that, owing to the widespread circulation of his books and the large number of his followers and associates.” Accordingly, it is not correct to attribute this view to the Imam’s own personal madhhab. Rather, it should be said: it is the conventional madhhab of Imam Ahmad. There is a difference between the personal madhhab which the Imam held as his religion before Allah, exalted is He, and the conventional madhhab. The conventional madhhab may be something the Imam never said, or even something contrary to what he held. It is what the followers of that Imam conventionally agree to regard as their madhhab—for example, when they select leading figures from among his followers and say, “If so-and-so and so-and-so, two leading figures among his followers, agree on such-and-such, then that is the madhhab,” or, “If most of the followers hold this view, then that is the madhhab.” The personal madhhab, however, is different: it is what he held as his religion before Allah, exalted is He. It may agree with what is conventionally called the madhhab, or it may differ from it.
“And I accept this marriage,” …
His statement, “And I accept this marriage,” is said by the husband or by one acting on his behalf. However, one acting on his behalf must not simply say, “I accept this marriage”; rather, he must say, “I accept it on behalf of my client, so-and-so.” Likewise, if the guardian has an agent, the agent should not say, for example, “I have married you to my daughter.” Rather, he must make clear that he is an agent, and say: