Al-Sharḥ al-MumtiʿIbn al-'Uthaymin

from you, O members of the household, all impurity, and to purify you thoroughly.” [al-Ahzab 33]

The Prophet ﷺ also said: “The best of you are those who are best to their families, and I am the best of you to my family.” (1)

Indeed, it would be a strong view to say that the members of his household are only his wives and those whom he supports, because this is how people commonly understand the term. Today, if your paternal uncle and your brother each live in a separate house, people would not say that they are members of your household. Thus, in customary usage, the members of one’s household are the wives, sons, and daughters whom he supports. In any case, however, wives unquestionably fall under the term “members of his household” if he has not divorced them, though they do not fall under the term “relatives.”

His statement, “and his people,” is treated by the author as equivalent to the terms “relatives” and “members of his household.” But this view is far from correct, because in both common usage and the Arabic language, a person’s people are broader in scope than his relatives—unless one adopts the view that relatives include everyone who shares the first ancestor through whom he is identified. On that view, a clan-branch of a tribe is considered relatives, and it may then be said that “his people” and “his relatives” have the same meaning. But if we say that his relatives are his children, his father’s children, his grandfather’s children, and his paternal great-grandfather’s children, then his people are undoubtedly broader in scope. This is why Allah sends Messengers to their peoples, though those peoples are not their relatives. Therefore, when “his people” has a consistently established meaning in common usage, such that an unrestricted reference can only be understood accordingly, it must be followed, because the stronger view concerning

(1) Reported by al-Tirmidhi in Al-Manaqib (Virtues), chapter: “The Virtue of the Prophet’s Wives” (3895), and by al-Darimi in Al-Nikah (Marriage), chapter: “Good Treatment of Women” (2260), on the authority of Aisha. Al-Tirmidhi said: “A hasan (fair), gharib (uncommon), sahih (sound) hadith.” It was also reported by Ibn Majah in Al-Nikah, chapter: “Good Treatment of Women” (1977), on the authority of Ibn Abbas. It was authenticated by Ibn Hibban (4177, 4186) and graded hasan by al-Hafiz Ibn Hajar in Mukhtasar Zawaid al-Bazzar (1039), from Aisha, with the wording: “The best of you are those who are best to their families.”
عَنْكُمُ الرِّجْسَ أَهْلَ الْبَيْتِ وَيُطَهِّرَكُمْ تَطْهِيرًا﴾ [الأحزاب: ٣٣]، وقال النبي ﷺ: «خيركم خيركم لأهله وأنا خيركم لأهلي» (١)، بل لو قيل: إن أهل بيته هم زوجاته ومن يعولهم فقط، لكان قولاً قوياً؛ لأن هذا هو عرف الناس، فالآن عمك وأخوك إذا انفردا في بيت، لا يقول الناس: إنهما أهل بيتك، فأهل البيت عرفاً هم الذين يعولهم من الزوجات والبنين والبنات، لكن مهما كان الأمر فإن الزوجات بلا شك إذا لم يطلقهن يدخلن في أهل البيت، ولا يدخلن في القرابة. وقوله: «وقومه» جعلها المؤلف كلفظ القرابة وأهل البيت، لكن هذا القول بعيد من الصواب؛ لأن القوم في عرف الناس وفي اللغة ـ أيضاً ـ أوسع من القرابة، اللهم إلا على قول من يقول: إن القرابة تشمل كل من يجتمع معه في الاسم الأول، فالفخذ من القبيلة قرابة، فهنا ربما نقول: إن القوم والقرابة بمعنى واحد، أما إذا قلنا: إن القرابة هم أولاده، وأولاد أبيه، وجده، وجد أبيه، فإن القوم بلا شك أوسع، ولهذا يرسل الله الرسل إلى أقوامهم وهم ليسوا من قراباتهم، فإذا كان للقوم معنًى مطرد عرفاً لا ينصرف الإطلاق إلا إليه وجب أن يتبع؛ لأن القول الراجح في
(١) أخرجه الترمذي في المناقب/ باب فضل أزواج النبي ﷺ (٣٨٩٥)؛ والدارمي في النكاح/ باب حسن معاشرة النساء (٢٢٦٠) عن عائشة ﵂، قال الترمذي: حديث حسن غريب صحيح؛ وأخرجه ابن ماجه في النكاح/ باب حسن معاشرة النساء (١٩٧٧) عن ابن عباس ﵄، وصححه ابن حبان (٤١٧٧) و (٤١٨٦) وحسنه الحافظ ابن حجر في مختصر زوائد البزار (١٠٣٩) من رواية عائشة ﵂ بلفظ: «خيركم خيركم لأهله».

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