Then he said: “Obedience is only in what is right” (1)—that is, in what is not reprehensible. As for this, it is reprehensible. Therefore, if he commands disobedience, then he is to be neither heard nor obeyed.
Question: In some Muslim countries, a person cannot join the army unless he shaves his beard, so they order him to shave it. Is he obliged to obey them?
Answer: No. Rather, he should say with complete frankness: “No hearing and no obedience. I will not comply with you in disobeying the Messenger, peace and blessings be upon him, for the Messenger, peace and blessings be upon him, said: ‘Let the beards grow’ (2), while you say: ‘Shave the beards!’ This is a direct contradiction and cannot be accepted.”
Would that the armies in Muslim countries agreed upon this and refused to comply. But our problem is that most of them do not care about such matters, so a person remains alone when he wishes to refrain from disobedience. At that point, the matter remains problematic. Yet if the entire army were to say, “We will not obey you in disobedience to Allah,” and stood firm upon that, neither the officer nor anyone above him would be able to compel them to do so. But our problem is weakness and lack of concern for such matters. People take this sin lightly; they do not consider the greatness of the One whom they have disobeyed, nor do they recognize that persisting in a minor sin renders it a major one, or that sins are a cause of failure