Fifth: the reasoning is that such a person did not deliberately commit the violation, and so he is not deemed sinful. If he is not sinful, then neither sin nor expiation follows.
Except for intercourse, hunting, and trimming the nails
His statement, “except for intercourse,” means that the expiation is not waived if he has intercourse forgetfully. The same applies if he has intercourse out of ignorance or under coercion. (1) This, along with what follows, is the category in which an excuse does not waive the ruling.
Their reasoning is that it is unlikely for someone to forget and then have intercourse, particularly since he is wearing the garments of ihram. Even if it is assumed that he forgot, his wife would remind him.
The response to this is: forgetfulness is a characteristic that waives the ruling of a prohibited act; if that is so, it makes no difference whether such forgetfulness is likely or unlikely.
Likewise, if someone has intercourse out of ignorance, they maintain that he incurs what one who knows incurs, because intercourse entails damage, in that it removes virginity; and liability for damage applies equally to one who is ignorant and one who knows. The answer to this is from two perspectives:
First: intercourse need not be with a virgin, for there is no difference between a virgin and a non-virgin regarding the prohibition of intercourse while in ihram.
Second: compensation for the loss of virginity is a human right. They say that even if the woman with whom intercourse took place is not a virgin, the bridal due is still obligatory. The answer is that the bridal due is the right of the woman with whom intercourse took place, and thus a human right. Intercourse while in ihram, however, is a right due to Allah Most High, and He has waived it for His servants in cases of ignorance. How, then, can we hold Allah’s servants accountable for what Allah has waived for them?!
The same applies in the case of coercion: if a man is forced to have intercourse with his wife, the expiation is not waived. If this takes place before the first stage of release from ihram, five rulings apply to him: