It is disliked for anyone other than one assisting with the washing to be present. Then he raises the deceased’s head to a position near sitting upright, gently presses his abdomen, and pours water abundantly at that point, …
His statement, “It is disliked for anyone other than one assisting with the washing to be present”: “being present” is the passive subject; that is, it is disliked for anyone to be present except one whose assistance is needed. This is because the deceased may have something that he would not wish people to see, such as wounds, or a defect such as vitiligo or the like, which he would not wish people to see.
The apparent meaning of the author’s words is that no one should be present, even if he is one of the deceased’s relatives—for example, his father, his son, or the like—because there is no need for him.
It was mentioned previously that, from the moment of death, the deceased is placed upon the washing bier. Therefore, it need not be asked: Should we wash him on the ground, or should we wash him on the bier? This is understood from what preceded.
His statement, “Then he raises his head to a position near sitting upright, gently presses his abdomen, and pours water abundantly at that point,” means that after stripping him and covering his private parts, he raises his head to a position near sitting upright—that is, a clear and noticeable raising—and gently presses his abdomen so that whatever is ready to emerge may come out. This is because all the deceased’s nerves relax. Thus, when his head is raised in this manner and his abdomen is gently pressed, there may be some filth in his abdomen ready to emerge, and it will come out. If this procedure were left undone, then, when the deceased is moved while being carried, turned during the washing, or shrouded, that which was ready to emerge might come out. For this reason, the jurists, may Allah have mercy on them, said that his head should be raised to a position near sitting upright, then his abdomen gently pressed, as the author has stated.
As for a pregnant woman, her abdomen is not pressed, lest the fetus be expelled.